Recently, I've been working with a few clients who have been afraid to take some risks in their job search. Risks such as applying to jobs they’re under/over qualified for, calling or e-mailing a potential hiring manager and networking. With some other clients, the risks have been asking ...
Before I refined it into a “what if”, I used to define it as living a life of no regrets, as I myself, refuse to ask the question “what if” anymore. Let me be the first to say it and definitely not the last, living a life of no regrets is really hard, but not impossible; it’s really all in your head. All throughout life, we choose our own actions and we must live with what follows; good and bad.The way I see it, is mentally; it’s all in your head. We choose whether or not we want to regret something…we choose to live a life filled with what ifs. I get it… I really do; we all have done something stupid in our lives, but have we not learned something from it?So no longer should you be living a life of “what ifs”. Get out there, challenge yourself, put yourself in uncomfortable situations. Next time, you feel a “what if” situation come on, stop, reflect and decide what you ultimately want, but whatever you decide, know that you must live with the repercussions; both good and bad.My standard response is consistently, “Do you want to live a life filled with “what ifs”?